My Story
I'm Jules.
I'm weird, wise, joyful, authentic, peaceful, loving, playful, brave, musical, a deep feeler, and a master friend.
I believe in magic and weird spiritual shit like we are ALL creators and gods. I play HARD and live with my best friend. Two single moms raising 8 swoon-worthy kids together. It’s loud. It’s sacred. It’s freedom.
As a kid, I deeply resonated with FernGully. I’ve always been on a rebellious mission: Help the planet. Find wildly fulfilling love. Burn down anything in the way.
I didn’t end up here by accident. I ended up here because I had to rebuild my entire life from the inside out.
There was a time I was chasing love so hard, I didn’t even notice I was abandoning myself in the process.
I know what it’s like to feel like a shell of a person—smiling on the outside while everything inside is screaming.
Beneath the patterns were deeper wounds I didn’t choose.
I’m a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and a former religious zealot.
I married a faithful man at 22, had four INCREDIBLE humans, and did my best to follow the rules.
For 30 years, I believed I had to earn love. Be good. Be quiet. Be forgiving. Be meek. Be lovable enough to be chosen.
That trauma lived in my body long after the memories faded. It shaped the kind of love I reached for… and the kind of love I believed I deserved.
Love meant giving until there was nothing left.
It also meant disordered eating, and an inner bully so loud I couldn’t hear myself.
But I’m a rebel spirit.
Raised by deeply loving parents. Built for courage.
And eventually - enough was enough.
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After leaving my faith, my marriage came crashing down.
I became a single mom with no college degree and a fuck-ton of determination to never again let someone else decide who I am or what I’m worth.
So I went inward.
I became MUSH.
I cocooned. I screamed. I sobbed.
I crawled through the dark caves I’d avoided for decades.
I learned to feel the unfelt, shed the layers, and return to the most essential version of me:
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Love.
Freedom.
Unique and quirky ME.
And what I found?
The deepest self-love of my life...
followed by the most magical romantic love I could’ve imagined.
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A partner who makes me feel seen. Cherished. Adored. Challenged. Chosen.
I cry as I write this, not because it’s a sales page, but because it’s real.
And this - this - is why I do this work.
Not for the business.
But for the unshackling.
For the moment someone realizes they don’t have to chase love anymore. That they ARE love.
My work isn’t about telling you what to do. It’s about helping you remember what’s already true.
We don’t fix. We alchemize.
We don’t chase. We come home.
And then? Love comes in.
Not because we beg for it, but because we finally know we deserve it.
A note on credentials:
Wisdom? Yes.
Credentials? No. (I’m a rebel, remember? 😉)
I’m a self-studied genius of the human psyche and relationships. Always have been.
Yes, I have coaching certifications. Yes, I’ve done trainings. But none of that means a fucking thing compared to living this transformation from the inside out.
My life is my certificate.
And the proof is in my joy.
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So...
Let’s escape cages.
Let’s create love that stays.
Let’s have infinite orgasms.
Let’s raw dog the universe together, shall we? 🪿✨
“Eventually, I stopped auditioning for love. Now I’m just taking center stage as my damn self.”
“True healing doesn’t make you ‘better.’
It makes you real.”
“There’s nothing wrong with you.
But there may be a version of you
you haven’t met yet...
because she’s never had the safety to fully exist.”
“This isn’t about becoming more lovable.
It’s about unlearning the bullshit that said you weren’t already.”
“You don’t need to glow up for love. You need to wake up to the fact that you already glow.”
I am not here to ascend. I am here to root so deeply into my truth that the earth shudders and says,"She’s baaaaack."
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"I will love you back into your wildest self.
And I won’t flinch when your soul starts screaming.”
“I don’t do surface.
I do soul excavation.
If you’re here for neat answers and gentle upgrades, turn back."
“I stopped fixing myself.
I started becoming myself. THAT'S when love finally had a place to land.”